African Friends
and Money Matters
by David Maranz
Africans find security
in ambiguous arrangements,
plans, and speech.
in ambiguous arrangements,
plans, and speech.
Westerners find security in clearly defined
relationships, arrangements, plans, and speech.
Africans’ Ambiguity
Part of the social code in Africa is the use of ambiguity
and the indirect approach, for it provides allowances for the uncertainties of
life. It allows for ‘flexibility for changing realities’ or ‘keeping the
options open’. It also gives ample allowance for ‘saving face’, that is, for
avoiding embarrassment for oneself or others.
The following are areas where ambiguity is often seen:
- Borrowing money or resources, which leaves open when, how, or if return or repayment will be made.
- Not having fixed prices maximizes the possibility of making greater profits by allowing the seller to maintain the advantage of knowing his bottom ‘last price’. It also allows for the inclusion of personal relationships and other subjective factors in pricing decisions.
- Allowing for the renegotiation of agreements in the light of changed facts, hoping for a better agreement.
- Not keeping accurate or precise financial records.
- ‘No’ being an unacceptable response in many situations where it expresses a finality that is considered to be negative and even hostile, easily leading to a rupture in relationship.
- Arriving or starting times for meetings or gatherings being indefinitely later than the announced times. Paying close attention to time gives Westerners a sense of security, whereas it causes a lot of anxiety for Africans.
Ambiguity is an art in Africa
and imprecision is its first cousin.
and imprecision is its first cousin.
The language of Africans is often imprecise and their
numbers inexact. Westerners should be watchful for roundabout approaches by
Africans they meet or work with. It takes more time and you may struggle to
understand the point someone is making. But it’s your role to discover the
issue. Africans love symbolism, proverbs, and double meanings, not
straight-forward speech.
A confrontational, direct approach is inappropriate in
Africa. People will find you offensive if you use this style. Instead, you need
to communicate by beating around the bush.
Africans experiences have taught them that much of life
if uncertain, including the future. Therefore, much caution is needed. Government
is all-powerful and the goals and policies of those in power are shrouded in
secrecy and are largely unknown. Transparency is much talked about but little
practiced.
Available resources are very limited and there is much conflict over their control. Consequently, to commit oneself to a future action or to the use of personal resources is very hazardous or even reckless. Who can tell what will happen after a decision is made that will affect one’s resources, the rules, and even the playing field?
Available resources are very limited and there is much conflict over their control. Consequently, to commit oneself to a future action or to the use of personal resources is very hazardous or even reckless. Who can tell what will happen after a decision is made that will affect one’s resources, the rules, and even the playing field?
Ambiguity gives security because flexibility is built in;
contingencies are allowed for. People have learned to be present oriented,
preferring to focus on the present and deal with the uncertain future as it
comes along.
- Lay your cards on the table.
- Stop beating around the bush.
- Face the facts.
- Get on with the business at hand.
- Call a spade a spade.
- Stand up and be counted.
- Get it direct from the horse’s mouth.
Ambiguity causes worry because
future plans need to be settled now. If something is determined to be advantageous
now, take advantage of it as conditions may not be quite as advantageous in the
future. Ambiguity causes worry because of a need to know what future actions
and commitments will be.
Ambiguity prevents Westerners
from planning for the future. Being future-oriented, they need to make detailed
plans for the future and when unable to do so, they are frustrated.
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